Friday, November 26, 2010

Personality Tests

So this is going to be a post about my personality, and a personality test I took a while ago. I took this Meyer-Briggs personality test last month, and I'm an ISFJ, which means Introversion Sensing Feeling Judgment. I'll use the wikipedia definitions of each to describe them and the type as a whole.
"I – Introversion preferred to Extraversion: ISFJs tend to be quiet and reserved. They generally prefer interacting with a few close friends rather than a wide circle of acquaintances, and they expend energy in social situations (whereas extraverts gain energy).
S – Sensing preferred to iNtuition: ISFJs tend to be more concrete than abstract. They focus their attention on the details rather than the big picture, and on immediate realities rather than future possibilities.
F – Feeling preferred to Thinking: ISFJs tend to value personal considerations above objective criteria. When making decisions, they often give more weight to social implications than to logic.
J – Judgment preferred to Perception: ISFJs tend to plan their activities and make decisions early. They derive a sense of control through predictability.
Myers-Briggs description
According to Myers-Briggs, ISFJs are interested in maintaining order and harmony in every aspect of their lives. They are steadfast and meticulous in handling their responsibilities. Although quiet, they are people-oriented and very observant. Not only do they remember details about others, but they observe and respect others’ feelings. Friends and family are likely to describe them as thoughtful and trustworthy.
Keirsey description
According to Keirsey, ISFJs, or "Protector Guardians", are most concerned with taking care of people by keeping them safe and secure. They are modest caretakers who do not demand credit or thanks for their efforts. But while they are essentially compassionate—and in fact exercise more patience in dealing with the disabled than perhaps any other type—their shyness with strangers can lead others to misread them as standoffish. Only among friends and family may this quiet type feel comfortable speaking freely. ISFJs are serious people with a strong work ethic, not inclined to self-indulgence. They believe in being meticulous and thrifty. They work well alone. While they may enjoy taking care of others, they do not enjoy giving orders."

I know this might be a little boring and long, so stick with me. Or you might find this fascinating. I don't really know. I myself think that this is fascinating, and helps me understand myself better. And I would really enjoy hearing what you guys are, if you feel like taking the test. Because I enjoy nurturing people, and having an idea of what other people need can help with that pursuit. I'm having a hard time weeding out what I really want to highlight about the descriptions of my personality type, though, so I'm sorry about that.

"The ISFJ feels a strong sense of responsibility and duty. They take their responsibilities very seriously, and can be counted on to follow through. For this reason, people naturally tend to rely on them. The ISFJ has a difficult time saying "no" when asked to do something, and may become over-burdened. In such cases, the ISFJ does not usually express their difficulties to others, because they intensely dislike conflict, and because they tend to place other people's needs over their own. The ISFJ needs to learn to identify, value, and express their own needs, if they wish to avoid becoming over-worked and taken for granted.

ISFJs need positive feedback from others. In the absence of positive feedback, or in the face of criticism, the ISFJ gets discouraged, and may even become depressed. When down on themselves or under great stress, the ISFJ begins to imagine all of the things that might go critically wrong in their life. They have strong feelings of inadequacy, and become convinced that "everything is all wrong", or "I can't do anything right".

The ISFJ is warm, generous, and dependable. They have many special gifts to offer, in their sensitivity to others, and their strong ability to keep things running smoothly. They need to remember to not be overly critical of themselves, and to give themselves some of the warmth and love which they freely dispense to others." (http://www.personalitypage.com/ISFJ.html)

I have to say that I do feel a little undervalued sometimes. While my head knows that you guys love me and care about me, sometimes I need some proof. I was fine when I could see you guys every week, but now that I'm no longer in Kalamazoo, it's harder to get the proof that I crave. So basically, I would really appreciate it if you just took the time and energy to maybe write a comment or two on my blog posts. It would mean a lot to me, little as it is.

If you want to read more about my personality type, here are some links:

Also, if you want to take the same test that I did, here's the link:

Thanks for reading this. I appreciate it a lot that you read to the end.

3 comments:

  1. Wow, I've taken this test twice (once over the summer for fun, and once last week for school) and got INFP. I might write a blog post about it.

    Anywho. I think personality tests are fascinating; I love reading these things. This sounds a lot like you. The odd thing is, because you are very generous and dependable, it's weird to think that you feel under-appreciated. I appreciate you lots and lots. And I love you lots and lots. And I get warm fuzzies whenever you comment on my blog posts. And I'm REALLY HAPPY you're in Kalamazoo right now. :D

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  2. I got ENFP

    Dominant: Extraverted intuition (Ne)
    Ne finds and interprets hidden meanings, using “what if” questions to explore alternatives, allowing multiple possibilities to coexist. This imaginative play weaves together insights and experiences from various sources to form a new whole, which can then become a catalyst to action.[12]

    Auxiliary: Introverted feeling (Fi)
    Fi filters information based on interpretations of worth, forming judgments according to criteria that are often intangible. Fi constantly balances an internal set of values such as harmony and authenticity. Attuned to subtle distinctions, Fi innately senses what is true and what is false in a situation.

    Tertiary: Extraverted thinking (Te)
    Te organizes and schedules ideas and the environment to ensure the efficient, productive pursuit of objectives. Te seeks logical explanations for actions, events, and conclusions, looking for faulty reasoning and lapses in sequence.[14]

    Inferior: Introverted sensing (Si)
    Si collects data in the present moment and compares it with past experiences, a process that sometimes evokes the feelings associated with memory, as if the subject were reliving it. Seeking to protect what is familiar, Si draws upon history to form goals and expectations about what will happen in the future.


    At first this really didn't feel like me. After reading more of the Wiki article, it sounds like me on a good day. I kind of feel like I don't quite live up to the article's description though.

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  3. On another note,
    I appreciate you tons and tons. I don't know that I could have survived my life without you there to give me some relief from craziness, or give me some relief through craziness. I think about you a lot and miss you more.
    I'm terribly afraid that I gave you the wrong impression in my blog post. I was distraught, and therefore wasn't the wisest with my words.
    I don't want you to feel like I ever once felt you abandoned me. In fact, our relationship is one that stands out in my mind as being consistent and strong, and not cut off when you went to college. I am not at all sorry or hurt that you went to college, even though it physically put you at a farther distance, I know that it's the place you need to be right now and that makes me happy, alongside the knowledge that our friendship is bigger than physical distance. I want to love and encourage you just as you love and encourage me. And I want to be there for you, and be able to talk about deep heartfelt things with you, surrounded by and open to the world and everyone in it. Thank you so much for sticking with me through the years. It feels like you nurtured our relationship, and invested time in it so it would grow. And that is something that really means the world to me. When I can see that someone's invested in me, it's proof that they actually do love me. I think that's my main love language, though I'm not sure that qualifies as an "official love language."
    I'm awfully excited to see you on Sunday.
    Your bestest friend,
    Emily

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